These 5 types of men and how to deal with it. Who knew you could better understand the contents of his mind.
Many men say women are sometimes difficult to understand and deal with. Then, how do you suppose the man? Was quite easy to understand? For those of you who are in a relationship or in the exploratory stage, the following five types of men and how to deal with it. With the know, who knows you can better understand the man who is currently close to you.
1. Stable and Steady
This type of man was in a stable phase of life. Starting from work to his personal life. He tends to find his wife and trying to live a serious relationship. A stable job usually requires a lot of time and mind. So if you deal with do not be surprised you will be disturbed by the sound of cell phone or a narrow time to meet him. It's annoying, but think positive that his work for your future as well.
Do not be too demanding time for the narrow. Be smart but stealing time to meet him, can at lunch or breakfast together. Every now and then lavished with a request to turn off the phone also does not matter, as long as not on weekdays.
2. Like exercise
She loves sports, can football, motor racing, race cars or basketball. It is very annoying if we want to spend the night together but she would prefer to menontong favorite game. Than you upset, go with him to watch. Invited to watch the match live at the stadium also will be very exciting. The atmosphere will be felt, so even if you do not really understand the game, could at least have fun.
3. Lovers Games
He can play for hours and hours of games, both in front of the television or computer. In fact, he often brings PSP (Play Station Portable) in the bag, so he can play at any time. To deal with this guy, do not immediately angry and confiscate his PSP. Make a deal with him when I'm with you, he can not bring PSP and play all sorts of games. If he can deliver presents in the form of favorite foods or kiss affection.
4. Book lice
Maybe it looks "geek" it makes you like it. Well, if you like this kind of guy, usually a bit shy and a bit stiff but if successfully defeated him, he could tell you many things at home and listen to for hours. To overcome rigid frequently asked together with your friends.
5. Mama's boy
This is according to the man and his life often depends on the opinion of his mother. It was certainly because he loved his mother. But often he can not divide our time between his mother and we are often caught in the shadow of her mother. For example when I want to go together, suddenly the mother called and asked to be delivered by him, or he compares the results of our cooking with her mother. Irritation certainly arise and usually leads to conflict.
It will be in vain because he also was in a position sandwiched between your yangg with her mother. Things you should do is to familiarize himself with his mother. If you managed to pull his mother, the relationship would be a lot easier.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
How to Argue the Intelligent
Often triggered fights because you or your partner does not admit mistakes.
Differences of opinion leading to arguments would often you experience with your partner. It can not be avoided if you and your partner in a state of emotional and clashing arguments.
Arguments are normal and can be a process of maturing relationship. Then, how to fight that happened between you and your partner not just a battle of words but to be a learning?
1. Focus
When arguing, focus on problems that triggered it, do not spread to other issues that are not related. Often when we fought to bring the old problems that have been completed. That would only make an argument more heated and would be difficult to find a way out because your mind branching into other issues that actually have diselasaikan well. So, when a fight try to focus on issues that are happening and avoid the old problem of leverage.
2. Admit mistakes
Often triggered fights because you or your partner does not admit mistakes. Try to be generous by acknowledging mistakes if you did do. Do not try to protect themselves by taking a lie because it could be a boomerang for the relationship.
3. No fighting in front of children
Bertengkarlah in the room and do not let the children know. Imagine if they see or hear you and your partner shouting at each other. It would have a negative effect on psychological development. If you think the problem is very important to be discussed immediately and could trigger a fight, immediately invited the couple into the room or other room to talk about it.
4. Find solutions
Do not let an argument that happened not produce anything. You and your spouse must get new lessons and how to solve it. Remember that argument is the learning process. So it was a test whether you and your spouse can work or not. Find a way out and do not hang problem. Do not let your future and your spouse fight over the same issue. It indicates the problem is not resolved properly and thoroughly.
5. Say sorry
When fighting you can just put out the words that hurt the couple. For that, no matter who started the fight, you also have to apologize to her. It's not just you admit a mistake but rather the value it as a couple and strengthen relationships.
Differences of opinion leading to arguments would often you experience with your partner. It can not be avoided if you and your partner in a state of emotional and clashing arguments.
Arguments are normal and can be a process of maturing relationship. Then, how to fight that happened between you and your partner not just a battle of words but to be a learning?
1. Focus
When arguing, focus on problems that triggered it, do not spread to other issues that are not related. Often when we fought to bring the old problems that have been completed. That would only make an argument more heated and would be difficult to find a way out because your mind branching into other issues that actually have diselasaikan well. So, when a fight try to focus on issues that are happening and avoid the old problem of leverage.
2. Admit mistakes
Often triggered fights because you or your partner does not admit mistakes. Try to be generous by acknowledging mistakes if you did do. Do not try to protect themselves by taking a lie because it could be a boomerang for the relationship.
3. No fighting in front of children
Bertengkarlah in the room and do not let the children know. Imagine if they see or hear you and your partner shouting at each other. It would have a negative effect on psychological development. If you think the problem is very important to be discussed immediately and could trigger a fight, immediately invited the couple into the room or other room to talk about it.
4. Find solutions
Do not let an argument that happened not produce anything. You and your spouse must get new lessons and how to solve it. Remember that argument is the learning process. So it was a test whether you and your spouse can work or not. Find a way out and do not hang problem. Do not let your future and your spouse fight over the same issue. It indicates the problem is not resolved properly and thoroughly.
5. Say sorry
When fighting you can just put out the words that hurt the couple. For that, no matter who started the fight, you also have to apologize to her. It's not just you admit a mistake but rather the value it as a couple and strengthen relationships.
Betrothed, Why Not?
If fixed, do not immediately rejected, who knows he is Mr. Right for you.
If you become a target of matchmaking parents or friends, what is your reaction? The answer is probably different. It could be, ranging from shame, to protest prestige.
"Hari gini, was betrothed to marry?" maybe that's what you think.
But, according to psychologists, Maria Susanti, forecasting bid should not immediately rejected. Who knew he was Mr.. Right for you.
"Multi-match, should not be regarded as old-fashioned way that can embarrass you, so that the legal 'must' rebuffed. Better to think of it as goodwill parents or your friends," said Maria added.
In addition, there is no harm in accepting an arranged marriage proposal as an opportunity to increase friendship. After all, if you do not find a match, you can submit objections properly.
Also love that goes hand in hand with frequent joint. Adage that, perhaps, have a point. Therefore, together it was able to grow seeds of love. However, if the match, yes, you do not just let go. Exploration of the nature and behavior of prospective husband remains an important process that needs to pass.
At the time of this assessment was not forgotten to deliver their respective expectations. Mentang-mentang man who betrothed with you was almost in line with expectations, you're so afraid to let go. This danger.
It is also important to remember, marriage with arranged marriage arranged marriage or without, is always risky to face the pebbles marriage, from smooth to sharp. Well, if this happens, you do not consider problems that arise in the marriage because you are forecasting.
Match was just a way to get a life partner. But, worse or the dissolution of a marriage depends on your commitment and your partner in living it.
If you become a target of matchmaking parents or friends, what is your reaction? The answer is probably different. It could be, ranging from shame, to protest prestige.
"Hari gini, was betrothed to marry?" maybe that's what you think.
But, according to psychologists, Maria Susanti, forecasting bid should not immediately rejected. Who knew he was Mr.. Right for you.
"Multi-match, should not be regarded as old-fashioned way that can embarrass you, so that the legal 'must' rebuffed. Better to think of it as goodwill parents or your friends," said Maria added.
In addition, there is no harm in accepting an arranged marriage proposal as an opportunity to increase friendship. After all, if you do not find a match, you can submit objections properly.
Also love that goes hand in hand with frequent joint. Adage that, perhaps, have a point. Therefore, together it was able to grow seeds of love. However, if the match, yes, you do not just let go. Exploration of the nature and behavior of prospective husband remains an important process that needs to pass.
At the time of this assessment was not forgotten to deliver their respective expectations. Mentang-mentang man who betrothed with you was almost in line with expectations, you're so afraid to let go. This danger.
It is also important to remember, marriage with arranged marriage arranged marriage or without, is always risky to face the pebbles marriage, from smooth to sharp. Well, if this happens, you do not consider problems that arise in the marriage because you are forecasting.
Match was just a way to get a life partner. But, worse or the dissolution of a marriage depends on your commitment and your partner in living it.
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Things to Do After the Disconnect
Do not be sad because it continuously with the breakup him.
It is very painful when the relationship you have cultivated over the years so it ran aground in the middle of the road.
Feeling sad, angry, disappointed, certainly you will experience and is very reasonable. However, that does not mean you have to sink into that feeling for months, because it will only hurt yourself.
Overcoming a sense of disappointment and hurt it takes time. But do not just rely on time alone, because there are many ways you can do to treat the pain after the break.
- Avoid talking with a former lover
The most important thing after you broke up is not speaking to former lover for a few days. Although you may think and feel in control but still it is not good for you. Do not play your own feelings, because it would hurt. Not seeing a former lover for a few days after the end is the best way to counteract the feeling. If you feel calmer, you can just talk or see.
- Do things that you've never done
Do the things forbidden by the ex-boyfriend when you are still in touch with him. For example partying until midnight with a male friend or shop sexy clothes. This can be a little satisfying to you and reduce pain.
- Spend time with your friends
Contact her friends and spend your time with them. You can go on vacation together, go shopping all day, go to the spa, salon or activities that could be other heart happy. Enjoy these activities and laugh with your friends.
- Tebar charm
Do not be long trapped feelings of disappointment or even trauma to establish a new relationship. Try to open yourself to another man. Remember, there are many men out there who are far better than ex-lover, who might be your soul mate.
It is very painful when the relationship you have cultivated over the years so it ran aground in the middle of the road.
Feeling sad, angry, disappointed, certainly you will experience and is very reasonable. However, that does not mean you have to sink into that feeling for months, because it will only hurt yourself.
Overcoming a sense of disappointment and hurt it takes time. But do not just rely on time alone, because there are many ways you can do to treat the pain after the break.
- Avoid talking with a former lover
The most important thing after you broke up is not speaking to former lover for a few days. Although you may think and feel in control but still it is not good for you. Do not play your own feelings, because it would hurt. Not seeing a former lover for a few days after the end is the best way to counteract the feeling. If you feel calmer, you can just talk or see.
- Do things that you've never done
Do the things forbidden by the ex-boyfriend when you are still in touch with him. For example partying until midnight with a male friend or shop sexy clothes. This can be a little satisfying to you and reduce pain.
- Spend time with your friends
Contact her friends and spend your time with them. You can go on vacation together, go shopping all day, go to the spa, salon or activities that could be other heart happy. Enjoy these activities and laugh with your friends.
- Tebar charm
Do not be long trapped feelings of disappointment or even trauma to establish a new relationship. Try to open yourself to another man. Remember, there are many men out there who are far better than ex-lover, who might be your soul mate.
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