Saturday, July 4, 2009

Things to Do After the Disconnect

Do not be sad because it continuously with the breakup him.

It is very painful when the relationship you have cultivated over the years so it ran aground in the middle of the road.

Feeling sad, angry, disappointed, certainly you will experience and is very reasonable. However, that does not mean you have to sink into that feeling for months, because it will only hurt yourself.

Overcoming a sense of disappointment and hurt it takes time. But do not just rely on time alone, because there are many ways you can do to treat the pain after the break.

- Avoid talking with a former lover
The most important thing after you broke up is not speaking to former lover for a few days. Although you may think and feel in control but still it is not good for you. Do not play your own feelings, because it would hurt. Not seeing a former lover for a few days after the end is the best way to counteract the feeling. If you feel calmer, you can just talk or see.

- Do things that you've never done
Do the things forbidden by the ex-boyfriend when you are still in touch with him. For example partying until midnight with a male friend or shop sexy clothes. This can be a little satisfying to you and reduce pain.

- Spend time with your friends
Contact her friends and spend your time with them. You can go on vacation together, go shopping all day, go to the spa, salon or activities that could be other heart happy. Enjoy these activities and laugh with your friends.

- Tebar charm
Do not be long trapped feelings of disappointment or even trauma to establish a new relationship. Try to open yourself to another man. Remember, there are many men out there who are far better than ex-lover, who might be your soul mate.

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