Betrothed, Why Not?

If fixed, do not immediately rejected, who knows he is Mr. Right for you.

If you become a target of matchmaking parents or friends, what is your reaction? The answer is probably different. It could be, ranging from shame, to protest prestige.
"Hari gini, was betrothed to marry?" maybe that's what you think.

But, according to psychologists, Maria Susanti, forecasting bid should not immediately rejected. Who knew he was Mr.. Right for you.

"Multi-match, should not be regarded as old-fashioned way that can embarrass you, so that the legal 'must' rebuffed. Better to think of it as goodwill parents or your friends," said Maria added.

In addition, there is no harm in accepting an arranged marriage proposal as an opportunity to increase friendship. After all, if you do not find a match, you can submit objections properly.

Also love that goes hand in hand with frequent joint. Adage that, perhaps, have a point. Therefore, together it was able to grow seeds of love. However, if the match, yes, you do not just let go. Exploration of the nature and behavior of prospective husband remains an important process that needs to pass.

At the time of this assessment was not forgotten to deliver their respective expectations. Mentang-mentang man who betrothed with you was almost in line with expectations, you're so afraid to let go. This danger.

It is also important to remember, marriage with arranged marriage arranged marriage or without, is always risky to face the pebbles marriage, from smooth to sharp. Well, if this happens, you do not consider problems that arise in the marriage because you are forecasting.

Match was just a way to get a life partner. But, worse or the dissolution of a marriage depends on your commitment and your partner in living it.