If fixed, do not immediately rejected, who knows he is Mr. Right for you.
If you become a target of matchmaking parents or friends, what is your reaction? The answer is probably different. It could be, ranging from shame, to protest prestige.
"Hari gini, was betrothed to marry?" maybe that's what you think.
But, according to psychologists, Maria Susanti, forecasting bid should not immediately rejected. Who knew he was Mr.. Right for you.
"Multi-match, should not be regarded as old-fashioned way that can embarrass you, so that the legal 'must' rebuffed. Better to think of it as goodwill parents or your friends," said Maria added.
In addition, there is no harm in accepting an arranged marriage proposal as an opportunity to increase friendship. After all, if you do not find a match, you can submit objections properly.
Also love that goes hand in hand with frequent joint. Adage that, perhaps, have a point. Therefore, together it was able to grow seeds of love. However, if the match, yes, you do not just let go. Exploration of the nature and behavior of prospective husband remains an important process that needs to pass.
At the time of this assessment was not forgotten to deliver their respective expectations. Mentang-mentang man who betrothed with you was almost in line with expectations, you're so afraid to let go. This danger.
It is also important to remember, marriage with arranged marriage arranged marriage or without, is always risky to face the pebbles marriage, from smooth to sharp. Well, if this happens, you do not consider problems that arise in the marriage because you are forecasting.
Match was just a way to get a life partner. But, worse or the dissolution of a marriage depends on your commitment and your partner in living it.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
Saturday, July 4, 2009
Things to Do After the Disconnect
Do not be sad because it continuously with the breakup him.
It is very painful when the relationship you have cultivated over the years so it ran aground in the middle of the road.
Feeling sad, angry, disappointed, certainly you will experience and is very reasonable. However, that does not mean you have to sink into that feeling for months, because it will only hurt yourself.
Overcoming a sense of disappointment and hurt it takes time. But do not just rely on time alone, because there are many ways you can do to treat the pain after the break.
- Avoid talking with a former lover
The most important thing after you broke up is not speaking to former lover for a few days. Although you may think and feel in control but still it is not good for you. Do not play your own feelings, because it would hurt. Not seeing a former lover for a few days after the end is the best way to counteract the feeling. If you feel calmer, you can just talk or see.
- Do things that you've never done
Do the things forbidden by the ex-boyfriend when you are still in touch with him. For example partying until midnight with a male friend or shop sexy clothes. This can be a little satisfying to you and reduce pain.
- Spend time with your friends
Contact her friends and spend your time with them. You can go on vacation together, go shopping all day, go to the spa, salon or activities that could be other heart happy. Enjoy these activities and laugh with your friends.
- Tebar charm
Do not be long trapped feelings of disappointment or even trauma to establish a new relationship. Try to open yourself to another man. Remember, there are many men out there who are far better than ex-lover, who might be your soul mate.
It is very painful when the relationship you have cultivated over the years so it ran aground in the middle of the road.
Feeling sad, angry, disappointed, certainly you will experience and is very reasonable. However, that does not mean you have to sink into that feeling for months, because it will only hurt yourself.
Overcoming a sense of disappointment and hurt it takes time. But do not just rely on time alone, because there are many ways you can do to treat the pain after the break.
- Avoid talking with a former lover
The most important thing after you broke up is not speaking to former lover for a few days. Although you may think and feel in control but still it is not good for you. Do not play your own feelings, because it would hurt. Not seeing a former lover for a few days after the end is the best way to counteract the feeling. If you feel calmer, you can just talk or see.
- Do things that you've never done
Do the things forbidden by the ex-boyfriend when you are still in touch with him. For example partying until midnight with a male friend or shop sexy clothes. This can be a little satisfying to you and reduce pain.
- Spend time with your friends
Contact her friends and spend your time with them. You can go on vacation together, go shopping all day, go to the spa, salon or activities that could be other heart happy. Enjoy these activities and laugh with your friends.
- Tebar charm
Do not be long trapped feelings of disappointment or even trauma to establish a new relationship. Try to open yourself to another man. Remember, there are many men out there who are far better than ex-lover, who might be your soul mate.
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