Friday, November 27, 2009

Biggest Mistakes Women Before Marriage

The burning fire of love is not a good reason to decide to get married.
For most women, marriage is a happy experience. Not only happiness and peace, domestic life will take a fight, hurt, and frustration.

Is a marriage will take place in the spectrum of happiness or not all depends on the ability of women in choosing a life partner.

The main mistake women getting married is that they do it because it was falling in love. The fire is still burning love is not the right reason to decide to get married. Remember that guy who can make a woman fall in love not necessarily going to be a good companion.

In a survey conducted last May, a woman who has been married for 20 years said, "I fell in love with three very different men before I was married to someone else. If I marry one of them, then I would have a husband that made me angry all the time. Each ex-boyfriend taught me a valuable lesson about what I do not want, and the result is that I married a good man who is still with me 20 years later, "he said.

The second mistake is that women are sacrificing too much for their love relationships. Women are still often choose to leave friends, hobbies, family, and anything else as long as it can maintain a relationship with someone she loves.

This is a fundamental mistake because first, she relies on the support of many, including friends and family in life. Second, he can not cover all the flaws in the woman.

Common mistakes that young women are often carried out in the decision to get married. Women often eliminate the "ego" they then go into the fabric of love intensively before they have a clear picture of their own identity.

Many women start to panic if they are not married in the mid 20s years. Feeling too late to get married and then made an excuse and justify their decision to marry. Married to someone for fear of feeling alone is not fair to themselves and also for the spouse.

Past mistakes, she did not do research before choosing a husband. Many things that need to be asked on prospective spouse about their opinions and thought patterns.

Ask questions such as how many children wanted, who should stay home to take care of the children, what priority each other's life. Share stories about managing money, dreams, and goals of each.

Women too sure if they could change a man. And if the change does not materialize, the expected relationship will last the poor woman.

When this happens, women should accept the situation as is and enjoy the differences between them. Another way, create an environment or atmosphere which could encourage men to change for the woman who he loves.

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